You know how it is said that when you are in love or in a good relationship, you add some good weight, glow or look fresh? well there are some relationship that even though you might be very much in love with that person, you just find your self loosing so much weight, breaking out , having premature grey hair and looking dull.
Try as you can and set your self free, run run as far as you can, cause it will never get better. Very often it is very hard to get away, to free your self from that bondage, from that controlling man, confide in a very good friend who you know will tell you the truth no matter what or your mum.
Dont push further, Don't try to hold on to the relation believing that it will work out or thing will get better, it will not and will only get harder to pull out of.
Sit down and think about three reasons why you love that man and if you can't easily bring forth three reasons then run,! or better still get a piece of paper and write down the pros and cons and if the cons out weighs the pro and you have sat down with him to talk about it and still no changes or even the slightest effort to change, then really don't bother.
Move on there is always some one out there that will treat you like a queen. yes no one is perfect, but be with some one who has more pros than cons. be with some one who brings out the best in you and not some one who makes you break out and loose taste for food, not someone who gives you a heart ache while still in the relationship " Love is never just enough"
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